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#10: Conquering the Worry of Failure and Redefining Success

“I’m fearful once more. I’m fearful I gained’t be capable to make CGS a self-sustaining enterprise that I can run full time and nonetheless survive.”

This was a journal entry I had written on 4/10/2019.

Practically a yr earlier I had made the choice that I wished to run Metropolis Lady Financial savings full-time…and that’s when the concern began to rear its ugly head.

Over time, I sought out the talents, instruments, and sources I wanted to grow to be an individual who didn’t let a concern of failure cease them.

Journaling was the true game-change for me.

I’ve been writing my targets down for almost 14 years, however I didn’t begin persistently journaling till 2018, coincidentally proper after I turned 30 and realized that I wished to be a full-time enterprise proprietor!

It’s like some a part of me knew that I wanted to grow to be a next-level Raya to ultimately attain that objective.

I’m a a lot quicker typist than author, so I’ve been typing my journal entries. I’ve a doc for every year, and I specify the day.

After studying “The Energy of Now”, I used to be in a position to have efficient journaling classes with myself. I’d ask questions and actually search the solutions.

Each day affirmations had been a really highly effective useful resource for me as nicely.

I’d journal my beliefs – issues I believed to be true about myself.

There have been many different journal classes round my concern of failing and so they all lead me to this realization:

I outline “Failure” and I’ve already determined that I may by no means be a failure due to all that I’ve carried out up till this level. Neglect about what hasn’t been carried out, that’s solely icing on the cake.

I additionally realized that except I’m dying or on the verge of dying, this “concern” I’ve is pointless.

That’s how I conquered my concern of failure.

So far as redefining success, I ended defining success by what society says and began fascinated about what a profitable life actually regarded wish to me.

As soon as I obtained clear on that, I used to be in a position to see that I’m already successful!

This is a look at this episode:

  • [03:25] I discovered that typing out my journal entries was way more sustainable. I believe a lot quicker than I write, so typing made sense and continues to be a every day observe for my journaling classes.
  • [04:55] I break down a journal entry I had years in the past that exhibits my fears as ideas and the way I shifted the narrative as I used to be journaling these worries.
  • [07:45] After studying The Energy of Now, I used to be in a position to have conversations with myself and ask inquiries to get to the basis of my ideas.
  • [12:30] The true technique to kick the concern of “failure” within the butt is defining what failure means to you and ensuring you by no means get to that place.

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Sources talked about on this episode:

The Energy of Now by Eckhart Tolle

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